Valentine s Day can be a challenging time for those who are single or going through a breakup. Aften recently experienced this firsthand, feeling down over the weekend. Such was the case for Aften who was feeling rather low over the weekend, but somehow her spirits were lifted by her mom s new partner. For Aften this was the first time a man has really been there for her, and today, she wants to show him her appreciation for lifting up her spirits.. and let s just say her spirits were lifted more than once..